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Most Supportive Husband 2025
Winner: Thumelen Chandrasegaran
Thumelen Chandrasegaran was nominated by his wife, Bavani Sundara Moorthy:
Thumelen Chandrasegaran has been an unwavering pillar of support throughout my breastfeeding journey. From the very beginning, he has shown remarkable dedication, understanding, and encouragement, ensuring that I could breastfeed with confidence and peace of mind.
His support goes far beyond simple words of reassurance. He actively participates in every aspect of our breastfeeding journey, whether it’s helping with nighttime feeds, supporting skin-to-skin contact, or making sure I have the time and space to pump when needed. During moments of uncertainty or fatigue, he is the calm presence that keeps me grounded, offering practical guidance and emotional reassurance that helps me persevere.
Thumelen’s commitment extends to learning alongside me. He attended consultations with lactation professionals, absorbed advice on positioning, latching, and pumping techniques, and applied these insights to help me breastfeed effectively. Even when faced with challenges like low milk supply or difficulties with latching, he was always there—ready to step in, assist, and ensure that our babies received the nourishment they needed.
His advocacy for our breastfeeding goals has also been instrumental. He stands firm against pressure or suggestions to switch to formula, always prioritising the best interests of our children and supporting my choices as a mother. He ensures that our breastfeeding journey fits seamlessly into our daily lives, balancing work, household responsibilities, and childcare, so that I never feel overwhelmed or alone.
Thanks to Thumelen’s unwavering dedication, I have been able to achieve my breastfeeding goals and maintain a consistent routine, feeling confident and empowered every step of the way. His selfless support, patience, and proactive involvement make him not just a partner, but an essential force in the success of our breastfeeding journey.
Shortlisted Nominees:
- Zaweer Hassan (not pictured – son accepted award on his behalf)
- Justin Kang (not pictured)
Zaweer Hassan was nominated by his wife, Hazami Hamidon:
Zaweer Hassan’s support for breastfeeding grew naturally from his pro-natural birth stance from the very beginning. He has always been respectful of my decision to breastfeed, and we maintain open conversations about it. If he ever has a question or a different perspective, he does his own research so we can make informed decisions together. This ensures we are always on the same page.
His support has been truly remarkable, encompassing both physical and emotional care. During my struggles with eczema, he became my direct caregiver, performing essential tasks such as hand expressing milk to maintain my supply when I was unable to do it myself. I had to relearn latching with our newborn after my hospitalization, and it was only possible because of his help—he was literally “my hands.”
Zaweer took over crucial childcare duties like bathing our son, proactively requested to work from home to be more available, and managed the complex feeding process by bottle-feeding donated milk and helping me with latching practice. He also handled household chores whenever I was unable to, easing both my physical and mental burdens.
His support extended beyond the practical. He encouraged me to take breaks and pursue self-care, such as attending breastfeeding talks, showing his commitment to my personal growth and well-being. His support has never been temporary; it has been consistent throughout both of my breastfeeding journeys and continues to benefit our family even after weaning.
Thanks to Zaweer, I was able to focus solely on the demanding aspects of breastfeeding while he ensured that our home and children’s needs were met. His unwavering dedication created an environment where I could succeed, making my breastfeeding journey possible. Even after weaning, he remains an incredible partner and father, inspiring me every day.
Justin Kang was nominated by his wife, Andralyn Kang:
Justin has been an unwavering pillar of support throughout our breastfeeding journey. From the start, he recognised the special bond our son shares with me and the confidence and security it gives him. He understands that breastfeeding is more than just food, and that I am more than a milk source—it demands physical, mental, and emotional energy, and he supports me in all these ways.
Physical support: Justin ensures I have the nourishment and rest I need. He cooks and buys food for me, holds our son so I can eat properly, and every morning takes our son out for an hour so I can nap after night feeds.
Mental support: He carries the mental load of breastfeeding with me. For every product we tried—from pumps to nursing wear, storage bags, and containers—he was involved in research, decision-making, and even subscribed to newsletters to stay updated on new products. Whenever we go out, he scouts nursing rooms, considers alternatives for comfortable and private nursing, helps pour and store milk, and washes pump parts. I never had to navigate this journey alone; he was always right beside me.
Emotional support: During the first four months, he was present at almost every breastfeeding session, even when away for work or reservist duty, video-calling to provide company. When nursing outside the home, he ensures our environment is comfortable, using blankets to shield bright lights and fanning us if it gets too warm. He encourages me when I feel stressed, prays with me, affirms my efforts, and stands up for me when others question or criticise breastfeeding. His presence transforms what could be a stressful experience into one of confidence, support, and reassurance.
Thanks to Justin’s constant encouragement and partnership, I have been able to continue breastfeeding far longer than I imagined. Breastfeeding is one of the most challenging things I have ever done, but his care ensures I am never depleted physically, mentally, or emotionally. Together, we have navigated the challenges of first-time parenthood, job changes, and mental health struggles, and his steadfast support has been central to our success.
Justin doesn’t just help—he empowers, protects, and uplifts me, making our breastfeeding journey a shared, joyful, and fulfilling experience.
