Most Supportive Friend or Family Member 2025

Most Supportive Friend or Family Member 2025

Most Supportive Friend or Family Member

Winner: Hazami Binti Hamidon 

Hazami was nominated by her sister, Musyarrafah Binti Hamidon:

Hazami has been an extraordinary source of support throughout my breastfeeding journey. From the very beginning, she provided guidance, encouragement, and practical advice that helped me navigate challenges with confidence. She patiently answered all my questions, explained techniques in detail, and shared her own experiences to help me avoid common pitfalls.

Her support went beyond just guidance—she was there during moments of doubt and difficulty, offering reassurance and motivation to continue. Whether it was troubleshooting latching issues, sharing tips on increasing milk supply, or helping me establish a pumping routine, Hazami’s advice was always clear, practical, and gentle.

She also empowered me emotionally, reminding me of the benefits of breastfeeding and validating the efforts I was putting in. Her encouragement gave me the confidence to persist through sleepless nights, low supply days, and work-related challenges, ensuring that I could continue my breastfeeding journey with determination and peace of mind.

Thanks to Hazami, I was able to reach my breastfeeding goals while feeling supported and understood every step of the way. Her dedication, patience, and knowledge have made a lasting impact on both my journey and my confidence as a mother.

Shortlisted Nominees:

  • Picture 1: Regina Lua Ubana – [Centre]
  • Picture 2: Chit Chit Htwe – [Centre]

Regina Lua Ubana was nominated by Joy Chua:

I first got to know Regina as my neighbour when we moved into our new estate. Even before meeting in person, we were connected through a neighbourhood group chat. I reached out to her privately a month before my delivery, and from that moment, her support completely changed my breastfeeding journey.

Regina is an Advanced Practice Nurse at IMH, a passionate mother of two, and an advocate for breastfeeding. She balances her professional life, her household, and raising two children without a helper, while still finding time to support others. I admired her dedication and approachability—she’s friendly, funny, and always willing to listen. Once, during my pregnancy, she cheered me up over a minor hiccup with a group order that left me without lunch while working from home, simply offering me her share and a comforting chat.

After my son was born—coincidentally sharing the same birthday as her—she continued to support me in every way. She helped me find reliable confinement help, sent helpful infographics, and encouraged me as a new mum learning to breastfeed. Regina even rallied experienced mothers from her wide network to provide hands-on help during the initial stage, so I could learn feeding, burping, and bathing techniques.

She guided me through breastfeeding techniques, from latching and positioning to massaging and pumping, explaining letdowns and how to cope with oversupply. She reassured me when I doubted myself, giving both practical advice and emotional support. Regina also shared her personal experiences, including how she managed her own mother, which helped me navigate my relationship with my mum.

Her support extended well beyond the early days. Even during the COVID period and beyond, she checked on me, answered questions about fast flow and swelling, and shared strategies for growth spurts and milk supply management. She encouraged me to breastfeed for 6 months to a year—and thanks to her guidance, I have breastfed for over four years.

Regina’s passion for breastfeeding is truly inspiring. She has helped friends, colleagues, and neighbours like me, and now, as a certified BMSG breastfeeding counsellor, she has the added skills and knowledge to support even more mothers on their journeys. Without her encouragement, I don’t think I would have persevered through the challenges, and I am forever grateful for her guidance, care, and expertise.

Chit Chit Htwe was nominated by Neubronner Jasmine:

Chit Chit Htwe, my domestic helper, has been one of the greatest blessings in my fourth breastfeeding journey. Though she had no prior experience with newborns, she understood exactly what I needed to succeed. Importantly, she shared how, in Myanmar, many mothers lack proper breastfeeding knowledge and often rely on formula, and she was determined to help me achieve my goal of feeding my fourth child exclusively with breastmilk during the first 12 months.

From Day 1 of confinement, Chit Chit was incredibly proactive. She helped me position pillows, gently brought my baby to me for feeding, and stepped in to burp and soothe my child once I was done—allowing me much-needed rest. Whenever I needed to pump, she handled the milk preparation, bottle feeding, cleaning, and sterilizing with care and consistency, never once complaining even when my baby fussed.

What amazes me most is that Chit Chit is not a mother herself, yet she shows the kind of care and devotion that feels truly maternal. Over the past 13 months, she has become like family. Her support allowed me to focus on feeding my fourth child while she managed housework and cared for my older children aged 4, 6, and 8.

Thanks to Chit Chit, I successfully breastfed my fourth child for a full year. Her dedication not only made the journey easier, it made me feel supported, seen, and not alone. How many mothers can say that their domestic helper empowered them to continue breastfeeding, rather than pushing formula? Chit Chit’s thoughtful, unwavering support allowed me to defy the naysayers and achieve a successful breastfeeding journey, and I am endlessly grateful for her presence.